Long time Barrio Barretto businesswoman Wilma Myers collapsed and died from an apparent blood aneurism on the afternoon of November 10th. She would have been 41 on Christmas Day.

At the time of her passing Wilma was president of the Barretto Business Association, vice-president of Santa Monica Residents Association, treasurer of the International Business Association. She was also serving on the Philippine Realty Association, the Olongapo Tourism council and the mayor’s advisory council. She was also an officer on the Subic Bay Resorts and Hotels Association (SUBRA).

Wilma was the first of ten Barasan children, attended local schools and at the age of 14 began working to help her family and pay her tuition at school. In 1987 she graduated from Columban College with a degree in accounting. She went on to manage several local businesses into the post U.S. Navy era.

She was currently the owner of Mango’s Seaside Restaurant, Rock Lobster Disco and Bay Area Realty. Wilma is remembered by her literally hundreds of Friends from around the World. She is survived by her husband Tom, and her three children Corina, Carla and Clark.

A Note from Tom

"Thank You for all the support so many have shown. I am of course extremely busy taking care of details and the kids and can not answer the many emails, but do know I greatly appreciate your condolences, prayers and thoughts.  I have gotten calls and emails from all over the world and frankly it has been overwhelming.  You, Wilma's friends, sent more flowers than I have ever seen. The many flowers, calls and emails just prove how much Wilma was loved and respected".

Enjoy the pictures of better times with our Dear Friend Wilma

1987
Christmas 1999			Wilma & Friends		Cecil's Farewell	Wilma & Cecil

			1988	1989	1990
1987
1987		1996 Jacobs Family Visit to Mangos

March 1988 at Tim & Josephine Jacobs Wedding

Condolences

Tue 1/15/2008 6:20 PM
Tom - Although you'll probably never remember me, I met you once there at Mango's. You and Wilma were well spoken of and loved by many ex-pats that I've met through the years. I'm shocked and saddened to read of her loss. My prayers are with you and your family. My condolences - Gene Mundy AKA "Ronin"

Sun 1/13/2008 10:55 PM
I am very sorry for your loss. When my Dad told me that Aunt Wilma passed away, I cried and cried. I just couldn't believe I wasn't going to  see her anymore. Aunt Wilma was like a Mom to me. Every time I would go to Mango's she would always have a big smile and would always hug me and my brother Sean. Aunt Wilma will always be known for being a caring mother, loving wife to Uncle Tom, and an amazing friend to everyone. I will always miss her. Uncle Tom stay strong! You have a lot of friends that love you and your kids, Aunt Wilma would of want that. Hope to see you guys soon .... kiss and warm hugs from the Allegar's. Love Kat Allegar

Mon 12/17/2007 5:25 PM - Lake St. Louis, Missouri
Tom - I just received a Christmas card from Mike Trimble , in it he spoke of Wilma's passing. I am so terribly sorry for your loss and that of your 3 Children. I went on your site and saw the Lovely Tribute for Wilma, it is a fine example of how she touched so many. I will keep You and Your Family in My Thoughts and Prayers. Tom Gallaher

Fri 12/14/2007 10:10 PM - Yokosuka, Japan
Tom - Maritess and I are still in a state of shock as we have just recently received the sad news of the sudden passing of Wilma. Please accept our deepest condolences. Wilma will always be remembered as the kind and loving person she was and she will remain forever in our prayers. Colver and Maritess Shaw

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Wilma & Cora	Cora & Wilma	At Joe & Dess' Wedding	Rock Lobster Girls

Wed 12/5/2007 2:47 AM - Australia
Dear Tom and Family - We were deeply saddened to read the news about the sudden death of Ate Wilma. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. We are all in a state of shock. Ate Wilma was such a loveable, entertaining and supportive person to be around. She was often a bright spot in my day. I will miss seeing her around Mango's. We pray for God's comfort for you and the children at this time. We all love and miss Ate Wilma. Friends from Australia - Cora Diorico Farrell and Family

Sun 12/2/2007 6:47 PM - Limoges, France
Dearest Tom and Family - Jeff and I were shocked and sad about the news, our condolences and thoughts arewith and your family. Wilma will be missed by all of her many friends. Jeff and Ellen

Sat 12/1/2007 3:45 PM
Tom - We just recently heard late about Wilma. We extend our heartfelt sympathy and condolences. Frankrijker Family - Peter, Sandy and Dennis

Thu 11/29/2007 3:34 PM - Las Cruces, New Mexico
We are shocked and saddened to learn of Wilma’s passing. She made us feel welcome when we visited Mango’s for 30 days back in Jan/Feb. of 2006. The world won’t be as bright a place without her presence. Please accept our sincere condolences. Bill and Myrna McNeil

Thu 11/29/2007 12:04 AM - Fredericksburg, VA
Tom - I know you don't know me and neither did Wilma. However, when my sister (Wilma and her were high school classmates) called me from New Jersey and broke the sad news, I felt compelled to write. My sister mentioned you guys often after she visited a few years back for a friends/classmates reunion at your Mango's Seaside Grill. I have visited your website numerous times since. Visiting the website somehow brings me close to home every time. Browsing through the pictures posted from chronicling the birth of your kids, to the progress we see as your kids are growing up to be so cute and adorable, the fun-filled, exciting events you guys hold every year for the community, which I am certain everyone looks forward to as each year goes by, all the smiles, the happy faces, etc, it made me feel as though, I knew Wilma then. And when I would think of going home, I would think of stopping by with all the family and friends to try all the specialties and meet her and to perhaps ask what her secrets are for all her success. In that regards, there is no doubt, she will be missed sorely and in some ways, I feel regret for not having the pleasure and the opportunity to know her personally. On behalf of my family and everyone from SAHSAA (St. Anthony's High School Alumni Association) based in San Diego, CA, we would just like to extend our deepest sympathy and our prayers to you and everyone in the family. Thank you and May God bless you all! Grace Estrella Nicolay

Wed 11/28/2007 3:27 AM - Boise, Idaho
Tom - I just logged on to your website for the first time in several weeks, and nearly fell over with the tragic news. Patti and I are so sorry for your loss. I am so happy that we were able to meet you and Wilma earlier this year, and had the chance to briefly get to know you folks. I am at a complete loss for words, Tom. I simply cannot explain my sorrow at Wilma's passing. Please accept our sincerest condolences, and prayers for your family. Alan and Patti Greene

Fri 11/23/2007 1:55 PM - Reno, NV
Tom - Although I did not get to meet your bride Wilma, our friend Chris said she was a wonderful lady. You are in our thoughts and prayers and may God be with you as you raise your three beautiful gifts - your children. I hope to get to see you soon someday there or in Reno. Be well, your friends Michael and Trent Perry

Wed 11/21/2007 7:59 PM - Subic Bay, Philippines
Dear Tom, Corina, Carla & Clark - Wilma touched everyone who came in contact with her in a very special way. Although we have known her only 3 or 4 years, we feel like she is part of our family. We can still see her so busy with all of her projects, while taking good care of Mango's, and her own family. Boundless energy and a calm approach to problem solving, she was truly a unique person on this earth and shall be sorely missed. We are proud to have known her. Paul and Rowena Trombetta

Tue 11/20/2007 7:03 PM - Bonne Terre, Missouri
Dearest Tom and Family - We are so sorry for the loss of your wife, Wilma. We were very saddened by the news. She will be missed by all of her friends. Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you and your family. Joe, Des, and Arcand Family

Tue 11/20/2007 12:31 PM - Juneau, Alaska
Tom, Corina, Carla, Clark & Barasan Family - Expressing my deepest sympathy and offering a prayer to God to bless and comfort Wilma's family and keep everyone in his care. I wish that I could be there to see Wilma with her family and loved ones. I have known Wilma for 23 years when we first started working together. We treated each other as one family. I have many pleasant memories of Wilma. We had an open heart to discuss many things like family life, love life, spiritual life and sharing business ideas. I don't really know how to express my feelings at the loss of a friend like her. God gave me Tom and Wilma as a blessing. Because of their over flowing support, I reached my goal in life with Wilma's help and understanding. Wilma, wherever you are, from all your friends, we love and miss you so much. You are always in our hearts. May you rest in peace. With sympathy and prayers - Nanay Beth and Children

Mon 11/19/2007 5:06 AM - Holland
Dear Tom - I am wishing for you the strength to go on and help your kids and to make them happy. Hope to come in January and will visit with you then. John (Kinky's)

Sun 11/18/2007 6:50 PM - Guam
I wish I could hold and love those beautiful children during the sad days ahead. But nothing can ever replace a mothers touch. For sure Wilma is at peace in heaven. Whereever we are and no matter what we will always stay friends. We touched each others lives in different ways. For now there's a hole in my heart but I find comfort looking at these pictures. Herlie Bray

Sun 11/18/2007 2:03 PM - Huntington Beach, CA
Tom - Please accept our deepest sympathy for your loss. The thoughts and prayers of her God Daughter Rosemae and dear friends David and Vilma Mincer will be with you always? God Bless - David & Vilma

Fri 11/16/2007 7:57 PM -
I am so saddend by the news of Wilma and I am so sorry. My heartfelt thoughts go out to her Family and all who loved Wilma. She was a great lady and friend to so many of us. I will always remember her with the warmest thoughts. Sweet Dreams Wilma - I am sure you will keep a watch over all your loved ones from Heaven. Sassy & Jeff Dykes

Fri 11/16/2007 12:47 PM - San Diego, CA
Tom and Family - I am so very sorry to hear of your loss.  Wilma was always such a dear sweet lady during all the years I knew her back in the late '80s.  My heart and prayers to you all.  God bless.  Mike Rogan

Thu 11/15/2007 7:39 AM - Achim Bremen, Germany
For Tom,  Corina ,Carla, Clark and all who know Wilma –We send our heart felt condolences and offer our prayers. Friends from all around the world will miss Wilma very much. Jenny and Andy and the Kids

Thu 11/15/2007 10:54 AM - Washington, D.C.
I met Wilma only a few years ago and really didn't know her very well, but I know Tom and many of their friends.  It's just amazing to see how many lives she touched in her brief time in our world and her positive influence will undoubtedly continue to guide those she knew. A wealthy person has a lot of money and a lot of things.  A rich person has true friends.  Wilma was very rich, indeed. Jeff Valdez

Wed 11/14/2007 8:12 PM - Imperial Beach, CA
For Tom, Corina, Carla, Clark and all who knew Wilma - We send our heart felt condolences and offer our prayers. Many people from around the world will miss Wilma. Rich and Rose Elliott

Wed 11/14/2007 6:39 PM - Houston, TX
Tom, It is hard to believe that just a few days ago, you and I were emailing back and forth about Wilma's impending trip to Vegas. I was so proud of her at how successful she was becoming. Her success was staggering but far from surprising. But this is not why she will be so sorely missed. She was truly loved by all that met her. She became more important to me than my own sister. For more than 13 years now, I can not recall her ever using my given name. I was simply "Brother Ko" to her and she "Sis" to me. In 1997, she welcomed my newlywed wife into to our circle of friends and immediately treated her as if they had been friends for years. Later, she honored me by bestowing upon us the privilege of being Corina's Godparents. Six months later she was so excited to become a loving Godmother to our son Stewart. I have many, many pleasant memories of Wilma but If I remember nothing else about Willy, it will be that no matter how big of a "knuckle head" I could become from time to time, she would always welcome me in the mornings with "Good morning Brother Ko, how are you?" No judgements, just love and friendship. Our lives are truly a little emptier now without her. Please remember that you and the kids are part of our family and you will forever be in our hearts and in our prayers. The Robison Family
 

Helen, Ana & Wilma	Helen, Wilma, Lisa & Ana	Wilma & Helen	Wilma - GodMother to Helen's Son Robert

Wed 11/14/2007 5:55 PM - San Diego, CA
Papa Tom, Corina, Carla & Clark & Barasan Family - We're sending our deepest sympathy for the loss of Tita Wilma. She's been a very good friend and she will be missed by everyone who loved her. Rest in peace Tita Wilma Barasan Myers.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you and to your entire family. We love you Tita Wilma and miss you already!!!  Your Friends - Lourdes, Lisa, Nanay Beth and Helen

Wed 11/14/2007 3:10 PM
Wilma - You have always been so kind to us when we have visited ... made us feel so welcome. We will miss You very much. I am including some photos taken during our last visit to Mango's ... many good memories. Our hearts go out to Tom and the Children.  Ron and Jane Lukasewski

Ron and Jane Lukasewski Visit May 2005

Wed 11/14/2007 8:48 AM - Sarasota, FL
Dear Tom, Corina, Carla and Clark - While I am sitting here in Florida so saddened by the passing of Wilma, I am also smiling as I reflect on this incredible woman, wife, Mother, friend and beautiful human being.

Wilma always had a smile on her face, a sparkle in her eyes, and an outpouring of warmth to all around her. The mere mention of Corina and a big smile filled her face...so proud of her wonderful daughter. And when you asked about Carla ...Wilma blossomed as she saw in this beautiful child, a Wilma of years ago, saucy, smart and perky. And her little man Clark , the son who was her prince charming...independent yet so loving of his Mommy.

Tom, I always marveled at the way you and Willy were a team, so many actions accomplished with out a word spoken, the two of you were not only connected by love and respect, but also by the same spirit of mutual admiration....from scraping it together, so many years ago, the two of you have built a wonderful life for the Family...From Mangos and the Lobster room...to the reality of "The River House" The team of Tom and Willy got great things done.

In retrospect, I wish I had taken the time to learn more about Wilma...from watching her playing some crazy card game with her friends on the Patio, to seeing her orchestrate all facets in Mangos and the Lobster room, Willy really was on top of her game.

As busy as she was, Willy always had the time to inquire about my family, wanting to see pictures of the Grandchildren, to insisting that I take time to enjoy a round of golf with Tom...Willy was in tune with all the people around her...she was so special and made all of us feel so special.

During these difficult days ahead, I know you and the children will draw comfort from the outpouring of love that is directed your way from Family and Friends from around the world. Just know that I am there with you, in spirit and sending love and prayers from half way around the world.  Love and hugs, my brother. Mike Cohn

Wed 11/14/2007 8:11 AM - Chicago, IL
My deepest sympathy on the loss of sweet Wilma. My son Tim Jacobs when in the P.I. often told me about her, as did my daughter-in-law PinPin.  I remember seeing her in their wedding video and photos. It was as if I knew her.  Prayers and thoughts to all of you from Chicago.   Patricia

Wed 11/14/2007 8:07 AM - Birmingham,England
Tom & Family - God bless you all. My thoughts and prayers are with you this time, at the sad loss of a truly beautiful person, Wilma. She will be remembered worldwide, as she touched so many people's lives. Rest in Peace Wilma. Warren & Grace Sedgwick

Tue 11/13/2007 6:28 PM - Las Vegas, NV
To the Myers Family: Because we care, our lives are touched when sorrow comes to you, Because we care, our hearts are touched-we feel your sadness, too. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time. Dan and Mona Robinson

Tue 11/13/2007 2:31 PM - Seattle, WA
Dearest Myers Family - I just wanted to write and say how sorry I am for your loss. I met Wilma only through my patronage to Mangos during my many trips to Olongapo. I still remember her convincing me to buy the house a round of drinks to have my name put on the wall. I recall agreeing to do so only if my name was larger than the others, one day later there it was in large letters MARK UNCK. She will truly be missed……Sorry again. My thought and prayers are with your family.  Mark Unck

Our Heartfelt Thanks for those of you who sent Flowers from around the World

Thank You for Remembering Wilma